Your first dance is one of the most memorable moments of your entire wedding day — a moment where the noise fades, the room softens, and it’s just the two of you. As a wedding singer in Leeds performing across Yorkshire, I’ve helped hundreds of couples choose a first dance song that feels personal, emotional, and completely them.

If you’re feeling stuck or overwhelmed, here’s how to choose a first dance song you’ll love forever.

1. Start With Your Story

Think about:

• When you met
• Your favourite artists
• Songs from early dates
• Lyrics that reflect your journey

Often, your perfect first dance is a song you already love — you just haven’t realised it yet.

2. Decide on the Mood You Want

Different songs create different vibes. Ask yourselves:

Do we want something…

• Slow and romantic?
• Fun and upbeat?
• Acoustic and intimate?
• Modern and emotional?
• Classic and timeless?

Your wedding atmosphere plays a role too. A relaxed Yorkshire barn might suit an acoustic version, while a Leeds city hotel might feel right with a fuller sound.

3. Consider an Acoustic Version

As an acoustic wedding singer, I often create personalised acoustic versions of songs couples love — even upbeat tracks. Stripping a song back can completely transform the mood, making it feel more intimate and emotional.

For example:

“Perfect” by Ed Sheeran (acoustic)

“You Are the Reason” (soft acoustic)

“Can’t Help Falling in Love” (modern acoustic cover)

Sometimes, the original isn’t quite right, but the acoustic version becomes perfect.

4. Check the Lyrics Carefully

Some beautiful songs have sad or breakup lyrics hidden inside. Before committing, read the lyrics as if they were a poem. Make sure the message fits your moment.

5. Think About the Dance Itself

Your first dance doesn’t need to be complicated — but your song should feel comfortable.

Consider:

• Can you sway to it easily?
• Is it too fast?
• Too slow?
• Do you want a mix (slow intro → upbeat finish)?

If you’re nervous dancers, a soft acoustic ballad is a great choice. If you want something fun, pick a song that builds.

6. Choose a Song You Won’t Get Tired Of

You’ll hear your first dance song:

• during rehearsals
• during the wedding

• in videos
• on anniversaries for years to come

Pick something you genuinely enjoy — not just a trending track.

7. Ask Your Wedding Singer for Advice

As a Leeds wedding singer performing across Yorkshire, I often guide couples who feel overwhelmed. A singer can suggest:

• songs that suit your style
• acoustic versions that work beautifully
• personalised arrangements
• alternative options if you want something unique

You don’t have to pick your song alone — use your musician’s experience.

Popular First Dance Songs (Acoustic-Focused)

Here are some consistent favourites couples choose:

“Perfect” – Ed Sheeran

“All of Me” – John Legend

“You Are the Reason” – Calum Scott

“Can’t Help Falling in Love” – Elvis / Kina Grannis

“I Get to Love You” – Ruelle

“Better Together” – Jack Johnson

“At Last” – Etta James

“Beyond” – Leon Bridges

“Say You Won’t Let Go” – James Arthur

“Simply the Best” (Acoustic Cover)

Any of these can be beautifully rearranged for acoustic guitar and vocals. Need more inspiration? Click here

Final Thoughts

Your first dance should feel natural, emotional, and true to your relationship. Whether you’re planning a big Leeds celebration or an intimate Yorkshire countryside wedding, the right song — performed live — turns your first dance into a moment you’ll never forget.

If you ever need help choosing or want a personalised acoustic version of your favourite track, I’m always here to help as your Yorkshire wedding singer.